Ordinary people all feel anonymous and small sometimes. But we need to remember how important we are to so many others, to this world, even when we feel insignificant. This blog is built on the idea that grief is a very positive thing if its energy drives us to act, to live and do so with love, compassion and connectedness. To this end it is full of reminiscence and sadness but the awareness that I like myself, and these stories made me the person that I am. And that is a good thing.